HI there!  

Have you tried traditional counseling or therapy? 

 I ditched the Weekly 50-minute session model years ago. 

Schedule a free Consult with me to learn more. 

There is no need to spend YEARS in therapy, to overshare,

or relive your past to find hope, healing, and joy in your life.


I partner with you as your Guide to help YOU change YOUR next steps - 

and specifically from a Biblical worldview.

In a matter of days or weeks - not years - you can find clarity and a newfound

hope for a better future.  

Let's talk.  Book a time with me at the link anywhere on this website.   

Intensives create movement so much faster

than 50 minutes a week.  

Another great option is


Join my FREE Healing Marriage Community 

& find out more there about the Healing Marriage Intensive that can revolutionize your marriage and family, intimacy with your spouse, relationship with God, the stronghold of addictions, your passion and calling in your work, and your relationship and leadership of your kiddos. 

the HealingLives Center

Coaching, Consulting, Speaking 

What to do first to reach out and get some help for yourself or your family - TWO OPTIONS:

(1) Complete the form on the CONTACT Page and Dr. Gilbert will call you back and we can book a FREE consult (or)

(2) Or skip the above step and Go ahead and book a call on Dr. Gilbert's calendar for us to meet via Zoom for a brief consult by clicking on any of the buttons on this page. 


Is this you?

  • Are you seeking to restore what has been lost in your marriage?

  • Do you want help from a solidly Biblical perspective?  

  • Are you battling with the stronghold of porn, or apathy, or a lack of purpose?  

  • Have you been told by friends and trusted advisors to just leave and quit since you are in a tough season  -  and find your true happiness elsewhere?

  • Are you overwhelmed with your kids, job, life, and the chaos and don't see a way out?


Dr. Corey Gilbert

Can my Marriage be saved? 

This is SUCH an important question. 

Some can, and some SHOULD not! 

  • Learn critical questions to ask yourself and - if possible, your partner.  

  • Can my marriage be saved even if..... there has been a history of porn, adultery, or a long of time of poor communication? 

  • Learn 3 keys that are critical to a healthy marriage - how to use them, get them, and keep them central to your marriage.

  • What do I do next?  

Make your Marriage a HEALING Marriage - a place of peace, hope, forgiveness, and HEALING. 

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Welcome, I’m Dr. Corey Gilbert!

Over the last 22 years, I’ve devoted my life to counseling, coaching, & teaching individuals, couples, and families struggling with past abuse especially in the areas of trauma, adultery, struggles with sex, sexuality, and gender identity. As a Licensed Professional Counselor with a PhD in Family Psychology, I’ve seen hundreds of people break free from the limiting beliefs that hold them back. I’ve seen people stop constantly questioning who they are and instead get excited about where they’re going. And most importantly to me, I’ve seen people freed from their past experiences and start enjoying life. I want the same for you.

Today, I am the CEO and Founder of the HealingLives Center, an acclaimed author, and sought-after speaker. Every day I work passionately to support and coach individuals of all walks of life to overcome their pain, understand who they are, and even see the value in their suffering. 

the HealingLives Center

Center for Sex, Trauma, & Marriage Education and Transformation

You CAN Experience JOY and FREEDOM from Shame Without Years of Therapy

The HeAlingLives Center's

Most Popular Coaching Programs


For Couples, or for Christian Women - that want to Break Free from Their Past

Helping YOU Go From “Trauma to Transformed” without Years of Therapy, Over Sharing or Reliving Your Past

The “Trauma to Transformed” Program is your key to a new life. We will work together in an 8 week 1:1 custom-tailored program with access to me via email all throughout, private check-in's, group calls, and an online course helping you grow in your use of tools to relieve the stronghold that stress, anxiety, and fear seem to have over you today.

We will spend these 8 weeks strengthening key tools to radically change the way you understand and interact with the abuse you endured, your present, and your future. This is a coaching program aimed to equip you to recognize the ways traumatic events from your past have influenced the way you think about yourself and the way you relate to others with an emphasis on how it is impacting your life, marriage, family and career. 

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This program is for the individual who has experienced abuse and is unable to get traction and move forward.  It is also designed for the couple where one or both members have dealt with abuse which keeps them from building a healthy marriage and family life.

If you’re ready to Identify your reactions and attitudes that are a result of abuse or trauma, learn different responses that will allow you to move forward and accomplish goals, and experience increased intimacy and closeness in the relationships that matter most to you, this program is for you.

The Trauma to Transformed Program with me, Dr G, is built for the couple wanting to grow, the individual that wants to break free, the couple with a struggling sex life, and the nearly / newlywed with or without trauma.  It is CUSTOM Tailored to YOU for YOUR success!

"Icing on The Cake" -
Intimacy Re-imagined 

Radically Transform Your Sexual Relationship and Address Your Sexual Struggles

This program will help you understand God’s design of your body, your sexual self, your sexual relationship with your marriage partner. We will explore God’s purposes in His design, as well as prepare you to eliminate or minimize the power of sexual struggles. When a couples recognizes sex as “Icing on the Cake” it provides the framework for enjoying it.

In this custom-tailored 8 week program we will use group interactions, 1 on 1 check-in's, and homework aimed at teaching, equipping, and empowering you to live free of sexual shame and enjoy your marriage - and hopefully, best friend. My goal is to help you get rid of misinformation and build accurate, healthy and godly goals.

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Can you imagine - Your sexual struggles could be gone! Forever! Your marriage can find the rhythm and sense of peace you seemed to have lost along the way. If you’re a married couple who desires to overcome sexual struggles and dysfunctions, build a stronger marriage, and uncover a safe, fulfilling and enjoyable sexual life - all from a Biblical Sexual Ethic - then this program is you! 

What Others Have Said About Dr. Gilbert

“While an uncomfortable subject, this course allowed me to gain a greater understanding of human sexuality and broke the rigid, religious view I was taught growing up. It created conversations between my fiancé and I and allowed me to be more comfortable with talking through different topics with him.  This is a beneficial course, well taught and one that helped me grow personally and in my relationship.”

Peyton M.

“I think my favorite thing about Dr. G’s program was that I figured out my own beliefs about things related to sex, gender marriage, etc.  It was extremely enlightening.”

Annie W.

“Dr. Gilbert’s class, Human Sexuality, reshaped the way I view not only sexual behavior, but also my own sexual behavior.  I greatly appreciate his insight and passion to help others know God’s design for us as sexual beings.”

Connor M.

“Human sexuality challenged me to think about sexuality, even my own, from a biblical perspective.  It was the best environment I’ve ever been into talk openly about uncomfortable topics and learn a biblical perspective on many aspects of human sexuality.”

Reagan D.

“Dr. Gilbert helps unveil the true beauty and intimacy that sex can bring in a marriage.”

Lillia D.

“I think my favorite thing about Dr. G’s program was that I figured out my own beliefs about things related to sex, gender marriage, etc. It was extremely enlightening.”